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We Need to Talk

Take my checkbook from my cold, dead hands

My relentless fight against autopaying personal and business expenses

Yes, I realize the calendar is out of date, but the idea is not. (Photo credit: Heidi Elliott/Flickr)

I grabbed my usual lunch from Jimmy John’s — vegetarian sub, salt and vinegar chips, and a lemonade — and jotted down a note inside my checkbook to mark down the debit card payment later. When I looked up, I stared into the horrified eyes of a Generation Y-er.




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Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Shamontiel L. Vaughn

Check out her 3 Medium pubs: I Do See Color, Tickled and We Need to Talk. (Doggone World and Homegrown are now on Substack.) Visit Shamontiel.com

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