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Why single people need a will, too

Don’t blow off writing a will — even if you’re childless

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No one can tell you what your future holds. You can create all the dream boards you want and start scratching off your bucket list, but the one thing you cannot control (of many) is the day you go — as in die. Depressing as it may sound, I was even sadder once I heard a woman say something to me that had never…




Let’s chat about my oddball thoughts on family, relationships and activism — with a dose of comedy, too.

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Shamontiel L. Vaughn

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