We All Need a Miracle: Do we?
No matter the time line we people always want something slightly more don’t we? When we fell down to our knees and felt like nothing will change in life no matter what, we all need a miracle. Will that miracle ever come? Or the real question do we really want or need that miracle?
I know how controversial this might be to some people but hear me out and read this post before judging and pushing your beliefs further.
When we need a miracle at first we will feel hopeless, like nothing make sense and we want the “mother fairy” to help us with her magical wand but I don’t think we need her as much as we think we do.
Every person has their own story to tell but of course it is not only happy memories and actually the thing we made us who we are not the only happy memories but the sad ones, the heartbroking ones, full of grief ones. They are showing what we have been trough but we are still here fighting in our own speed.
When you experience an unpleasant emotion, you put yourself in a worse mood by questioning the source of this emotion or by repeatedly expressing your emotional state. With conversations such as “I’m so bad, I’m depressed, I’m sad, I’m alone, why am I like this, who did it, he did it, it’s because of you…”, you inhale that emotional state you don’t like even more. Remember, “whatever you look for, you find.” What is your intention, to get out of your bad situation or to create more bad feelings?
Instead of putting yourself in a position in your mind that you need a faitytale ending with a magical wand maybe we should try to except that those “unpleasent” feelings are our feelings too. We are allowed to feel white and black all emotions. They all help us to grow, to mature up. Of course early maturizing is not healthy but in your twenties maybe instead of wishing to starts you can just try to heal yourself. Take control of your own life!
As you focus on your negative emotions, your internal source (emotion production center) continues to produce that emotion more intensely. When you feel great, how many times that day do you say “I feel great, I’m very good”? two or three or five times. So, how many times do you repeat this situation internally or externally when you have bad emotions? Ten, fifteen, twenty, maybe too many to count. As a result, you feel worse until a good event or person affects you. Then I would like to ask you this question: If an event or person outside of you can influence you to use the resource within you positively or negatively, why don’t you use your own resource the way you want? The best way to use the resource is to start by asking yourself the right question. What does this feeling mean to me? What do I need to change? What can I do to make this feeling positive? These types of questions take you forward and take action. “Why am I like this, what happened to me?” Speeches like, “I feel bad and helpless” will drag you to the bottom. Don’t wait for someone or an event to come and change your feelings. Otherwise, you will always live a life dependent on people and events. The source is within you, hold the strings tightly in your own hands and produce emotions as you wish.
Don’t forget you can always ask for help from real people and of course you can wish to the stars! It is your life just do not let the other things/ people to take control of it!
Sincerely,
Hoping for the healthies mind and body…
