When Screens Remove Our Better Angels

McDonald’s discovered something unsettling when they rolled out their self-service kiosks. Well, unsettling for those of us who don’t own shares in the Golden Arches: men ordered differently when facing a screen versus a human.

One burger became two. The guardrails of social judgment vanished behind the glow of an LED display. No raised eyebrows. No slight pause from the cashier. No moment of self-reflection.

We call this liberation.

But maybe those social constraints serve a purpose beyond “judgment.”

In person, we regulate. We consider. We factor in social cues that evolved over millennia to help us make better choices. That moment of hesitation before ordering a second burger isn’t just social pressure — it’s a built-in pause button that gives our higher brain functions time to engage.

Digital interfaces strip away these evolutionary safeguards. They create a vacuum where our impulses reign supreme, untempered by the wisdom embedded in social interaction.

There’s a darker truth here, about digital transformation: it’s not just about convenience or efficiency. It’s about short-circuiting the social mechanisms that often protect us from our worst impulses.

Consider the implications:

Dating apps that amplify superficial choices over deeper connection.

Social media accounts that reward our most reactive, unfiltered thoughts.

Shopping carts filled with impulse purchases we’ll later regret.

The interface bypasses the natural friction that helps us make considered choices. Every tap, every click is another small surrender to immediate gratification over long-term wisdom.

We’re dismantling psychological guardrails that evolved for good reasons.

The most powerful interfaces don’t simply make existing behaviors more efficient — they bypass the social and psychological mechanisms that help regulate…