Three Most Powerful Love Languages
What is a love language?
Today’s topic is gonna be interesting and worth discussing. Before going into details of how powerful ‘Love Language’ could be in a relationship, I would like us to understand what love language is all about.
What is a love language? Love language simply means a system of communicating or expressing feelings about something or someone towards your partner. This is the feeling shown to compliment your partner. Love language is the idea of showing partners how to give each other love in a way that will be best appreciated. It shows the different ways we best show our appreciation of love.
1. Word
Words are simple units of languages that can be spoken or written. What you speak or write to your partner will show how your love will be appreciated. Let’s take for instance;
Affirmative words — These are words that have been said to give “Assurance”, and “ Support” to your partner, friend, or spouse. In times of hard times or crises, the supportive words said to your partner or spouse might increase the love shown to you. These words could be encouraging and positive vibes to keep them going.
Complimentary words — These are words spoken or written to compliment your partner, spouse, or friend.
Imagine beautiful scenery, where your partner is about to take their leave and you call them back, just to say some sweet words such as I Love You, that will make them feel loved, and special and it’s a love language.
This will leave them thinking of you all day. It can also be when your partner compliments your dress or looks.
2. Spending Good Time
Spending quality time with your partner or friend will show the level at which your love language is communicated. Having quality time together could sometimes be a trip, a vacation, playing games, and also good conversation together. This can strengthen your love and build a strong feeling in your partner. How do you feel when all that time has been spent with you? Taking a trip will help you both to enjoy nature, and playing games will encourage an intimate desire of love and passion for things in common. Whilst, a good conversation will help clear some approaches to matters.
3. Offering To Help
A good act of service will surely be appreciated by your partner. Offering to help out with some chores, tasks, assignments, and work will help ease your partner’s stress. This goes a long way to compliment their response of feeling toward you. It creates an opportunity to know more about your partner’s lifestyle.
Love language could help boost relationships, it has to be worked out by both parties to get the desired results in their relationship. Building a healthy relationship requires more than just one person. We need to show our partners love in ways that they want to receive it and it will be reciprocated.
How do you feel when your partners spend quality time with you, offer to help out with some task, or compliment you and also support you in all that you do? I will appreciate it if I get your views or comments on this article.
