I want to harvest your SOUL
bwah ha ha ha!
Harvest: (v) to gather, bring in, collect.
I have such a drive and passion to help people. It’s literally why I’m on this planet I believe. Come to me, all ye weary souls!!! I offer you rest and refreshment and reprieve from suffering.
If I had to pick my NUMBER ONE tip/technique that I like to share with others, the thing that has the most immediate impact, it would be:
“You gotta let that shit GO!” Let it go, let it go, let it go. ***Don’t start singing that Disney song-it’ll never get outta your head! Oops — too late. Sorry!
NOTHING is important or significant enough in your life to cause you stress. If it’s stressing you out, it’s got to go. YOU are the one in charge of your life. YOU are the one who makes all the choices that affect the way you live. Contrary to popular belief, we really truly don’t owe anything to anyone. We are not obligated to love our own blood family, we are not obligated to work a certain job, we are not even obligated to stay married to the same person.
It’s YOUR life. If something is making you unhappy, CHANGE IT. Let it go. I promise there is ALWAYS another way. There are plenty of amazing people out there that can BECOME your family, if you don’t fit in with the one you were born into. I know LOTS of people who make their own family out of like-minded individuals they gather to them throughout their life experiences.
If a job, or a certain situation, or your spouse or significant other is causing you a lot of distress… you have 2 choices: either make the necessary changes, or accept things the way they are, and stop complaining and bitching.
If you don’t have the heart or guts to make the necessary changes, then you’re going to HAVE to JUST focus on the positives in the situation/relationship. That’s the only way to move forward. And in fact, if you DID just focus on the positives, then guess what generally tends to happen???? They grow and expand, and maybe even at some point, begin to far outweigh the negatives.
As my guru, Dr. Wayne Dyer, loved to say:
“Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at change.”