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Date Ugly Men

Heck, be really radical and date ugly women

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When I see an ugly dog — I still think he’s cute. Because, you know, he’s a dog. There are no ugly dogs. At least not to animal lovers like myself.

So why is it that we can’t see human beings the same way?

When we meet someone, why do we focus on the superficial stuff? Skin color, hair color, bone structure — it’s…




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Shefali O'Hara

Shefali O'Hara

Cancer survivor, artist, writer, engineer. Grew up in NYC, living in Austin. Love animals, books, hikes, art, travel, D&D and fireworks.

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