What “Meant to Be” Really Means (and What It Doesn’t)

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We’ve all heard it.

If it’s meant to be, it will be.

We throw around the phrase “meant to be” like it’s a spell that makes everything okay.

But let’s get real, meant to be isn’t a magic wand. It’s not a guarantee, and it sure as hell isn’t an excuse to sit back and do nothing.

I’ve learned that“meant to be” is less about fate pulling the strings and more about how we navigate what life throws our way.

Here’s the real deal on what “meant to be” is, and what it’s absolutely not.

Let’s break it down.

What “Meant to Be” Doesn’t Mean

It’s Not a Free Pass.

“Meant to be” isn’t code for effortless.

It doesn’t mean your dream job will fall into your lap or your soulmate will magically appear while you’re binge-watching Netflix.

Relationships, careers, dreams, they all take effort. You can’t just wish for something and expect the Universe to do all the work.

I used to believe that if a relationship was meant to be, it wouldn’t come with challenges. If we were meant for each other, things would just click.