CONFLICTS AND CONNECTION IN THE FAMILY
Avoid abusive words. Practical Tips for Conflict Resolution
Conflicts time is a time we should be careful because of our utterances. Whatever will be disheartened at that time, the hearer holds the gravity when it is negative.
"Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.
Conflicts are inevitable in any relationship, but how we handle them determines the outcome. One of the most important things to remember during conflicts is to avoid using abusive words.
Words have power, and abusive words can cause deep wounds and damage relationships. In Ephesians 4:29, Paul reminds us to use our words to build each other up, not tear each other down. This means choosing to use constructive language, even when we're feeling angry or frustrated. Using abusive words can lead to defensiveness, hurt feelings, and damaged relationships.
On the other hand, using constructive language can lead to understanding, resolution, and stronger relationships.
Illustration:
Mary and her husband were having a disagreement about their finances. Instead of lashing out with hurtful words, Mary took a deep breath and calmly expressed her concerns. "Hey, I feel frustrated when we don't stick to our budget. Can we find a way to work together on this?" Her husband appreciated her calm demeanour and constructive language, and they were able to work together to find peace.
Practice using constructive language in your next conversation with a family member or in your relationship. Instead of using abusive words, try using sweet words.
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