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If You’re Single, Read This Before Getting Married

Making this mistake will cost you your marriage and happiness

Bilal Arslan
Write A Catalyst
Published in
5 min readOct 23, 2024

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The experiences of a man who got married about 2 years ago. His financial struggles during the marriage process and his advice to singles.

As I approached the age of 30, my family and relatives increased their pressure on “When will you get married?”

They constantly tried to set me up with girls they knew or thought I would like.

Finally, with the advice of a close friend, I decided to meet someone.

One evening, I went out with the woman my friend wanted me to meet.

She was a calm and nice girl. Our minds adapted from the first minute. The idea of ​​marriage had firmly settled in my mind. Our families reacted almost equally to this surprising event. They were modest people with average incomes.

When the subject of marriage came up, she was talking about how her friends who got married before her received marriage proposals.

She was explaining in detail. Surprises, organizations, proms, expensive solitaire rings, etc. In fact, most of them were just like in romantic movies or TV series.

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Write A Catalyst
Write A Catalyst

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Bilal Arslan
Bilal Arslan

Written by Bilal Arslan

Politics, economy, technology, and cybersecurity. I also share poetry. “Your intuition knows what to write, so get out of the way.” —Ray Bradbury

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