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Why Some People Are Choosing Celibacy — And Calling It Empowerment
Celibacy isn’t new. But how people talk about it today is. It’s no longer just tied to religion or shame. Now, some are choosing it for power, peace, and clarity. And they’re not quiet about it.
They’re tired of hookup culture. Tired of feeling empty after sex. Tired of confusing physical closeness with real connection. So they stop. Not because they’re broken or scared — but because they’re finally listening to themselves.
Sex Isn’t Always Empowering
We’ve been told sex is freedom. And for some, it is. But for others, it’s become a routine they don’t even want. They go along with it because it’s expected. Because saying no is seen as weird or uptight.
But many are now asking, what if I don’t want this? What if sex doesn’t make me feel powerful — just used?
Choosing celibacy isn’t always about swearing off sex forever. For many, it’s a pause. A reset. A way to figure out what they really want, without the noise of lust, pressure, or performance.
Taking Control of Their Bodies
Some people choose celibacy after a string of bad experiences. Not always dramatic — just disappointing. Sex that felt rushed. Partners who didn’t care. Regret that…
