A Spiritual “Soirée” 🥂
Inviting playfulness into my practice
This message formed from a pure thought of “How does one close out a spiritual meditation?” which then led me to another inquisitive reflection, “Well, similarly to how one would dismiss guests at an intimate dinner party.” So, wondering ideas turned into captivating realizations. I continued to explore and expand my understanding of how simple and playful something can be. It doesn’t have to be complex or exhaustive. I’ve not hosted many intimate gatherings in this manner but as my imagination activated, the process became joyful and something that I look forward to exploring more of in the future, both spiritually and with close loved ones.
This approach is intended to be playful and to be read with enjoyment. However, it is indeed one of many fun-filled ways to connect with your soul, inner-knowing, spiritual practice of choice. I hope you get inspired and ponder what feels good to you.
An invitation is thought to be suitable etiquette for particular events of importance but something quite disregarded in simpler scenarios. However, for this get-together, an invitation to our guests can be regarded. An invite can be in numerous forms. Think about how you’d like to spend time with your guests. Are you vocalizing, writing, dancing, or playing music? Whatever you fancy, include an invitation.
An invitation is an opening to creating a connection with wholesome boundaries and welcoming affection. Some examples…
- With Words ( Verbal or Written): as a poem or song, in a journal, on a napkin, or on a leaf. 🌱
- With Sound: bell chiming, music playing, instrument playing, humming a tune.
- With Movement: dancing, stretching, stomping…free your body!
- Miscl.: a cup of something soothing, a morning walk, a bath, sitting in silence, lighting incense/candles…🕯☕️
The beauty of this invitation is that it can be in whatever form you want and feel the strongest pull towards. The true importance is having fun and enjoying the process!
I absolutely love setting the mood!
This can be as detailed or as minimal as possible. Some days I like gathering comfy blankets, dimming the lights, lighting some candles, playing ambient music, adorning myself, pouring a glass of something delish, and having a snack(S) on hand. I’m definitely connected to my fairy goddess energy on those days — you know 🧝🏽♀️. And on other days, it’s just grabbing some water and plopping my ass on the couch with a journal or phone to record what’s to come.
This can vary depending on time, day, needs, and what your sensual desires are. Do you want some texture surrounding you? Is a scent filling the atmosphere? What sounds are caressing your ears? Is it the morning or evening? Are you inside or outside? What would you like to talk about or get insight on? Maybe write a few things down on a post-it as “conversation points” to help guide the flow.
Remember this is your soiree, you get to decide how you want to host it.
So happy we’re at this point because, from this moment on, it’s all up to you on what the rest of this get-together will consist of. Are you writing, dancing, painting, or cooking with your guests? How’s the convo going? Who’s guiding it? Where’d the focus drift to?
A note on drifting conversations…
Sometimes things can take a bit of a detour. Neither is right nor wrong. Give yourself total permission to remove the pressure of things going perfectly. The beauty is allowing room for fluidity and redirection.
So, if it takes a turn and you’re enjoying where it’s going, by all means, dive into it with full curiosity and radiant eyes! However, if it’s leading you somewhere you are not ready or interested in going, you can set a boundary.
This is essential because:
- N°1. You’ve acknowledged your feelings.
This boundary is beautiful and continues the mutual enjoyment of this gathering!
Alright, the party’s coming to a close, you’re feeling content and ready to conclude this exchange. Begin by closing out with a few final interactions, thank your guest(s) for joining you, and inform them that it is now time to gather their things and depart.
Like with any party, there can be that ONE guest who tends to overstay their welcome, If you don’t put your foot down, they may just keep the party going and become an annoyance rather than the pleasurable company you hoped for. So having a closing is crucial.
After so much interaction, it’s a lovely idea to take a moment to restore yourself with some me time.
Personal refreshments after your soirée —
- Open the window and allow fresh air to flow through.
- Go for a walk to get your body in connection with itself.
- Take a bath/shower literally or figuratively — close your eyes and imagine yourself in a beautiful blue lagoon with a delicately flowing waterfall washing over your body.
- Hydrate & eat a nourishing meal.
- Or simply sit and digest this moment.
Depending on where you are and how much time you have, refresh yourself in whatever way works best for you, you’ll know what you need. Listen to your body and trust yourself.
You’re officially prepared to host your get-together with your preferred spiritual practice and most importantly, with YOURSELF. Please share your thoughts and I look forward to hearing all about your Soirée. Thank you so much for reading!
Tí Robinson writes about curious musings and reflections all with a touch of whimsy. You’ll usually find her sipping herbal tea, cuddling her cats, and gardening. Say hi by emailing: hello@acupofti.co or on Instagram @acupofti.co. Should you feel delighted to enjoy more of her works, please consider being charmed and subscribe.☁︎.𖥔 ݁ ˖༄
