Love That Dominates
This article is not about domination over a particular gender, rather it’s about how people respect and love the domination of their partner in their relationship.
Loving someone is a beautiful process. People love, they get married and hopefully happily ever after begins. This process is as beautiful as it sounds but it also involves complications and struggle to co-exist. Loving someone is not about devoting yourself to one person or dominating your better half, rather to me it’s a relationship where both give their hundred percent to co-exist.
Recently I met, Deep and Vanshika, a couple celebrating 10 years of togetherness. Both of them are educated, working, and managing their kids and home perfectly. My curiosity is how both of them can manage such a relationship after being poles apart in everything. During a gathering when I asked Vanshika about my curiosity, she smiled and simply pointed toward his husband and mentioned him as the reason for their happy married life. She explained that their compatibility is based on domination. She further explained that nobody is perfect, every relationship has its ups and downs, and we fight and argue. However, we may not love each other every day but never forget to respect each other. To me, this sounds more bookish rather than real.
Furthermore, she continued, that living in the same house requires more than just love and respect. Managing finance and family is the other aspect of the relationship, she added. She explained her point with an example of managing finance, that she is not good with money management so let Deep manage her investments and other expenses, but she kept a record of her own money too. On the other hand, Deep is an introvert by nature and an anti-social person who is not people-friendly. So, she manages both of their relationship with family and friends.
They both love each other but still dominates each other in certain aspect of their relationship. This domination helps them to coexist together. There are different levels in a marriage or in any relationship in which we might not be compatible or one lacks. The best relationship is the one where we give our hundred percent where our partner is not able to contribute. These gestures of completing each other make the relationship peaceful and beautiful. Moreover, for me, this domination of love that completes each other is a key to a healthy relationship.
