Learn When to Shut Up
Hard but worthwhile lesson to learn.
It’s a lesson hard to learn, but there are some situations where not saying a word is the most reasonable course of action.
You should learn when to speak and especially when to shut up.
Here are some situations where you should definitely do the second.
When Your Opinion Is Irrelevant
Maybe you don’t know much about the topic or it has no impact on the conversation.
Even if asked to do so, you’ll earn people’s respect by admitting not being knowledgeable about a certain topic.
It shows you’re humble enough to admit your flaws and people appreciate that.
During Arguments
It’s a matter of keeping control.
Debating is acceptable, it’s part of any relationship.
However, if it scales to an argument, then you’re better off saying nothing.
We tend to lose control when we’re angry, so if you see yourself getting into an argument, stay silent and calm down.
When Your Words Will Be Hurtful
If follows the argument logic.
Say you’re angry, tired, or upset and the conversation is becoming personal and conflictual, chances are you might say something you’ll regret.
If you find yourself thinking of expressing something hurtful, cool down and shift your mindset.
When Judgement Is Clouded
You should always give yourself time to digest the information you’re given.
There’s no such thing as a quick and reasonable response when you’re emotionally compromised.
If you’re having trouble thinking clearly, give your ideas time to mature.
You may maintain the same point of view, but how you express it will surely be more respectful.
Unaware of the Facts
Don’t talk when you just heard one side of the story.
Before you say anything, make sure you have all the information needed to speak, otherwise, you might sound partial or entirely wrong.
When Talking With a Close-Minded Person
It’s just not worth the time.
Close-minded people have a very short fuse and they understand nothing else but their own point of view.
That is what they believe in, even if it’s wrong.
Don’t waste your energy and keep your ideas to yourself.
Inspired by a fellow creator, I decided to challenge myself to publish 100 short-form articles within January. This is article number 39.
