Togetherness and Strength: The Power of Love in Difficult Times

Ukyawang Marma
Writers’ Blokke
Published in
3 min readJun 11, 2023

We all face challenges and hardships in life, whether it’s a personal crisis, a global pandemic, or a social injustice. Sometimes, it can feel overwhelming and hopeless to deal with these situations. But we are not alone. We have the power of love to support us, inspire us, and heal us.

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Love is not just a feeling or a word. It’s an action and a choice. It’s a way of being and relating to ourselves and others. It’s a source of strength and resilience that can help us overcome any obstacle. Love is not something we have or don’t have. It’s something we do and share.

How can we cultivate and express love in difficult times? Here are some suggestions:

  • Be compassionate with yourself and others. We are all human, and we all make mistakes. We all have flaws and weaknesses. We all have needs and feelings. Instead of judging, blaming, or criticizing ourselves or others, we can practice compassion. Compassion means recognizing the suffering of us and others, and responding with kindness, understanding, and support. Compassion helps us to heal our wounds, forgive our faults, and accept our differences.
  • Be grateful for what you have and what you can give. Sometimes, we focus too much on what we lack or what we want. We forget to appreciate what we already have and what we can offer. Gratitude means acknowledging the good things in our lives, no matter how big or small. Gratitude helps us to feel more positive, optimistic, and generous. It also helps us to recognize the value and beauty of ourselves and others.
  • Be present with yourself and others. Sometimes, we get distracted by the past or the future. We dwell on regrets or worries, or we chase fantasies or expectations. We miss out on the present moment, which is the only time we can truly live and love. Presence means being fully aware of ourselves and others, in the here and now. Presence helps us to connect more deeply, communicate more effectively, and enjoy more fully.
  • Be supportive of yourself and others. Sometimes, we feel isolated or helpless in facing our challenges. We think we have to do it all by ourselves, or we don’t know how to ask for or offer help. Support means being there for us and others, in whatever way we can. Support helps us to feel more empowered, confident, and hopeful. It also helps us to create stronger bonds and communities.

These are some ways that we can practice love in difficult times. By doing so, we can transform our challenges into opportunities for growth, learning, and healing. We can also inspire others to do the same, creating a ripple effect of positive change in the world.

Love is not a luxury or a weakness. It’s a necessity and a strength. It’s the most powerful force in the universe, and it’s within each one of us. Let’s use it wisely and generously.

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