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Why Messaging on a Dating Website for More Than a Week is a Waste of Time

You want a boyfriend not a pen pal

Photo by Brooke Cagle on Unsplash

Chatting online to prospective partners is fun, and it feels like you are dating even when you really aren’t.

You get dopamine hits when you receive a message and feel good about your dating success, even though in real life, nothing has changed.

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Wendy Scott

Wendy Scott

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Brit in Auckland, L&D professional and leader. I can give you dating tips, show you how to train people and help you be the sort of boss people want to follow.