Why You Should Write Your Personal Stories

Take the plunge to share your writing

Penny Zang
Writing 101

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The thought of sharing my story terrifies me.

What would people think?

What if someone hates it or picks it apart?

I’m a private person, so I don’t talk about X.

Tell the truth: you’ve had one of these above thoughts, too, haven’t you? If you’re anything like my students, writing about yourself feels like exposing a part of your inner self that you weren’t planning on exposing. I’m not just talking about a cute anecdote that you’ve told so many times you have it memorized. And I’m not referring to surface-level biographical information about your hobbies and where you’re from.

I’m talking about the personal stuff. The real, raw, truthful stuff that only a few people — or maybe no one — knows about you. Those are the stories you’re holding in, and they are, in most cases, the stories that most desperately need to be told.

Here’s the thing: storytelling is one of the most effective ways to build relationships and form connections with others. This may mean writing a blog post or a short essay. We could also be talking about the ‘About Me” section of your website here. Emails, newsletters, and public speaking events are all occasions to tell a story and build…

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Penny Zang
Writing 101

English professor in SC and book nerd. Debut novel: Doll Parts, forthcoming from Sourcebooks, 2025.