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Being a ‘Nice Guy’ Doesn’t Automatically Make You a Good Boyfriend

Our expectations for men have gotten absurdly low

Before I got into my first real long-term relationship, I thought being nice was enough, or at least that’s what I thought it meant to be a good boyfriend.

For a time, it was. I don’t have a bad temper. I don’t treat my girlfriend poorly (or at…



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Ryan Fan

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