Why It’s Okay to Ask Your Partner to Change For You (Sometimes)

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One of the worst things you can do to a romantic partner is to want them to change. You’re supposed to love your partner for who they are, so wanting them to change is tantamount to saying, “I don’t love you for who you are. I need you to change for me to love you.”

If you go to your friends after a fight with your partner, saying, “My boyfriend wants me…