Dogging: Drive Thru Sex Parties

Park & Pork — Swinging Comes Out Into The Open

The God of Porn
Dirty Little Secrets
6 min readNov 18, 2020

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In the past few years, a free-for-all sexual underground scene has burst into the open… literally. Public outdoor sex has come out of the bushes and is claiming its place at the X-rated table as a major player. It’s no longer a taboo practiced by the seriously kinky and a dirty old raincoat-clad dude looking to whack one out in front of an unsuspecting and uninterested passer-by.

Several years ago, an offline sexual revolution started in the United Kingdom. Today it can be found across suburbia world-wide. If this is the first time you are hearing of the word ‘Dogging’ — I can guarantee, it’s not the last. Dogging seems set to be a biggest transformative sex trend for the 2020s.

Dogging has its origins in Britain when suburban swingers began throwing open their doors and hosting drive-through voyeur and exhibitionist shows in woodland laybys and secluded parking lots. And, instead of blacking out the car windows or trying to find a spot where no-one would see them, windows were purposely rolled down and lights left on ensuring anyone could peer in and get an eyeful of the sexcapades taking place

So, what’s new here you’re probably asking? Public sex has been around since, well since a couple got down to it in the Garden of Eden. But what hasn’t been around since the beginning of time is social media. Groups started springing up on Facebook and Twitter as horny folk would leave a note of where and when they’d be at it.

Dogging soon became so widespread across the British countryside, that local city and country newspapers began writing shocked editorials about this outrageous new trend. In the effort of journalistic integrity and transparency, all these opinion pieces noted where the local ‘dogging’ spots were, and when the deviant locals would be dogging away.

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The media’s name and shame attempt of shutting down local dogging spots had, unsurprisingly, the opposite effect. More and more people came to check out their burgeoning local public sex scene. The era of amateur pop-up live porn was born.

Neighborhood Watch Parties Take On Different Meaning

Like all good things, dogging quickly became one of the fastest growing British exports of Cool Britannia. Over the past couple of years, dogging spots have sprouted up across the USA, Canada, Australia, Europe, Asia and even some countries in South America. From working-class wankers, to middle-class masturbators, all spheres of society began loosening their ties, hitching up their trucks, mini-vans and family sedans and making a short drive to view and take part in a different type of neighborhood watch party.

Curious? Everyone is. That’s the beauty of dogging, as it’s not just for the sexually extreme. You don’t need to belong to any special club. It doesn’t take place in a closed building. Everyone is invited and no carefully crafted online profile is needed. How it works is that you just go onto one of many websites that show global and local dogging spots. Put in your zip-code or town and see in seconds your local live porn hang-out. Right now, as you’re reading this, there’s a car (or several) parked near you, full of sex toys and a horny exhibitionist waiting for an audience to watch them wank or full-on fornicate.

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Dogging 101 — The Etiquette of Public Boning

But this doesn’t mean couples are copulating on every corner. Far from it. There are rules and etiquette governing this bright new world of bonking for all. Sensibilities must be observed, and societal norms are in place to ensure only those that want to be a part of the neighborhood live porn party stumble across the deviant world of dogging.

What happens is that you drive up. Park your car and go for a stroll quickly glimpsing into car windows. Once you find a show you’re into you can just stand and watch (and yes — those at it want you to, otherwise they wouldn’t be there). Or you take your partner — start to get down to business, and quickly enough you’ll have a group outside encouraging you and even giving tips. If you’re up to it, you can roll down the window and let them catch a quick grope.

The jackpot of a dogging date is when the woman gets out the car and lays across the bonnet, legs splayed open, toys at the ready. That’s the sign that she’s up for a public gang-bang.

Ok, you’re probably thinking. Fine, whatever. More than likely by now you’re considering doing a quick search to find out where the nearest dogging site near you is, but there’s more to it than just watching people screw outside.

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Unlike the more traditional swinging set, doggers tend not to pre-plan their porking. It happens whenever, day or night, weekend or mid-week. You don’t need to pay to join in and if you’re a dude, and you don’t need to be with a woman in order to get admittance. It’s a free for fall. It’s pretty much like going into a live cam site, watching the S$%^ go down in a free chat room, but then you get to join in if a car door opens, or a window is rolled down.

For those that flash and fuck, it’s like hosting a cam show, but instead of a virtual audience, you’ve got people in the flesh looking on. They can see you — you can see them, but there’s no touching unless the host allows.

For the voyeurs it’s a random game of chance. You’ve got no idea what’s going to happen, whether you going to be one of a crowd of dudes waiting for something to wank to, or maybe you’re going to get a ringside drive-thru seat to a hot girl and her panting wannabe cuckold.

Are You Ready To Give It A Go?

The thing about dogging is that you don’t need a partner to do it. When it comes to traditional swinging, it’s couples only. If you feel like a random hook-up with a stranger, it’s either taking your chances in a bar, swiping left and right after having to upload photos and making small talk. Or you’ve gotta take the old-fashioned route of paying for the pleasure. Dogging, though, is a pure in and out with a like-minded amateur that wants one thing only. To be watched or watch someone without caring who they are and what they look like.

Dogging In Porn

If you’re still not clear what dogging is, just a quick visit to any major porn site and you’ll be faced with thousands of amateur-filmed videos of their most recent public park and pleasure night. For example, xHamster had a rather inspiring library of 24.3K dogging clips, XnXX has over 10K dogging tagged clips, and Xvideos has got over 8K.

So, next time you fancy a quick ride around the neighborhood, or a bit of adult entertainment that doesn’t take place on a monitor and isn’t going to cost you money, go see what’s happening in your local dogging spot.

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