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Why you should take responsibility and decide for yourself
That’s how you avoid regrets
Don’t support them no matter how much trouble they are, because it means being a good friend. Don’t forgive your family members over and over again, because that’s what family is for. Don’t be polite while sacrificing your desires, because you want to be a good person. Don’t cut your friends/family who became toxic, because psychologists say it’s good for you.
Do that if you decide that is the right thing to do.
Here is an example: you know these stories of two best friends, where no matter how much one has hurt another, the second will save him over and over again because they are friends. Sounds like a good thing to do, right? But on the other hand, nowadays such friends would be claimed as toxic and it is advisable to avoid them to protect your own mental health. So what’s the right thing to do now?
I was rewatching one of my favorite animes “Tokyo Ghoul” as I caught myself thinking: what is good or bad and what is right or wrong? Usually, it is pretty simple, but I found myself claiming one character as a monster and later seeing him from the good side. Sounds familiar?
In the movies/literature, it’s pretty simple at first: here is a monster, which equals bad. But the real question is WHO IS A…
