If you’re always the fixer.

On needing to be needed.

Photo by Roselyn Tirado on Unsplash

If you’re always the fixer, always there, always strong, then people react to your crisis with a crisis of their own, just to put you in your place.

If you’re always the fixer, then you’ll be bitter. Enraged — when people don’t understand the parts of you that need fixing. If you’re always the fixer, you’ll value looking good over feeling good…




Articles on my mental health journey. Anxiety. Trauma. Inspiration.

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