The Frustration of “Should” Thinking.

Just because they “should,” doesn’t mean they will.

Lisa Martens
Jun 8, 2020 · 5 min read
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I feel like every adult who raised me has fallen victim to this trap. I was and sometimes still am a victim of this trap, and I see it all around me now.

“Should” thinking. What people should do. Speculating, gossiping, rationalizing.