You Are Just as Important as Other People.

Painful news for the recovering people pleaser.

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If this sentence gives you pause, or made you cringe, or made you feel outright revulsion, you might be like me: a recovering people pleaser, a person who diminishes their own needs…a person who maybe doesn’t even know what their needs are.




Articles on my mental health journey. Anxiety. Trauma. Inspiration.

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