Women’s Day, Everyday
Keeping up with women’s happiness. Simplest things husbands can do.
There can never be enough celebratory days that remind us of special events like birthdays, anniversaries, father’s days, children’s day, world hijab day etc. So what’s new and trendy on March? Women’s Day, of course! Every day is a Women’s Day. Men, don’t fret. It’s not necessarily another day when women expect to be showered with gifts. Generally speaking, in our setting today it’s a day of commemorating women’s sacrifices. Instead of thinking what gifts to get for your women, try considering what treatment you could do on this special day. It’s a win-win situation. The happier and appreciated you make her feel, the more love and care she would pour towards you and the family. Three things to bear in mind:
- Say kind words
- Help lift her burdens
- Surprise her with little gestures
Men, you have to know that the second most important thing to women after their family is their wardrobe. How many of you have experienced your woman staring at their almost-exploding-wardrobe-full-of-clothes each morning, profusely thinking what to wear like they’re about to make a ground breaking decision but end up saying “I have nothing to wear!”. Rave on, you are not alone.
Some men think it is a phase when women express their fashion obsession. But do take note that something so mundane to men could mean absolutely crucial to women. Don’t criticize. Say kinds words, and help her choose what outfit to wear for the day. The reason she prides over her clothes sometimes is not always because how stunning it looks on her but because her man chooses it for her.
Coming back home from work, all drained out and exhausted, not all women have the luxury to give a second thought about lying down on bed for a 5 minute break. From handling the baby, cooking dinner for the family can be delayed. Therefore, the best thing for men to do is to help her by lifting off some of the responsibilities and burden. Happiness to women can simply mean seeing the house tidied up, dishes cleared away, clothes folded and put away.
As men carry the role of a provider, then love you provide! If you want to steal her heart, resort to treatments that would rekindle the love between you and her. Most of the time it doesn’t have to be expensive or cost money at all. Yes, an exclusive relaxing spa treatment would be nice but what would melt her heart just as much is sometimes the simplest unexpected gestures like making her a hot drink in the morning, take her out for a late night date to the nearest mamak, read her romantic poems by the balcony, sing her a song that was played on your wedding day or go for a long walk while holding hands.
Even though men may have a mind of their own when it comes to Women’s Day, your perfect man will be at your service whenever and wherever you need him. If that’s not the best gift a man could give his woman on a daily basis, we don’t know what is.
After all, as John Gray said it “Men are motivated when they feel needed, women feel motivated when they feel cherished”.
How do you show your gratitude to your woman? Share it in the comment section below.
