Never put yourself after people.

I did that mistake multiple times & learned nothing from it. Guess I have always believed that there is good in everyone but everyone don’t care about your happiness, comfort, scarifies you do, how much bullshit you take from them. They just don’t it could be anyone in your life right now ANYONE!

Open your eyes realise your value, don’t let anyone put your spirit down just because they are that way. You will come across people who are jealous of you & in that spirit they decide to push you around because they have that bully sense that makes them feel powerful in some way or another. This exist at all ages trust me, infact the older they get the more messed up they are, it’s harsh reality. But there is always a reason WHY they choose that path, a reason why they have become what you see.

Everyone has a secret to which their behaviour is connected and reflected with, but very rare are bothered to understand that reason because it’s complicated. These people find comfort in pretending to have some sort of power in a dominant way & simpler because feeling the sligtest feel of control makes them feel better about themselves.

Every individual doesn’t choose to bully they are either spoiled brats or have seen vicious scenes as a child. Over time they have a choice to either grow out of it or live with it till the end of their time. Yet they make the wrong decision and choose poor not because they want to but because they think that is the right choice.

Complicated individuals aren’t monsters, they are lovable human who need to know what comfort means.

Here is an intriguing situation experienced by many, You are on your own, you cross paths with a person who is complicated and harsh yet their are nice to you in the most minior way possible, you choose to see the harsh side than the good side & if you end up seeing the good side you are entitled by others as a pyschotoic person. Let’s face it it’s true. Once you try, try, try, & TRY you manage to get their attention and end up being their bitch, end up putting their needs, happiness before yours & in your innocences you think they do it because that’s their way of showing appriciation or respect. Well GET OUT OF THAT BUBBLE, if someone keeps showing you how un-appriciated you are to them, don’t be bothered and I know it is difficult to not be bothered especially for those who live off kindness and good deed and are subtle WELL I am here to remind you a thing about kindess: Be kind, caring, loving, subtle, protective over those who genuinely matter such as your family and your partner maybe selective friends but not more because the more you care the more you get shut down. This is the harsh truth.