10 Tips for Eating Pussy the Right Way and Bringing Her to a Mind-Blowing Orgasm
I love to eat pussy. Following these 10 tips virtually guarantees you’ll be a cunnilingus pro.
Like almost all women, my wife, Lauren, loves to be orally pleasured. Because she’s bisexual, she also loves to orally pleasure — and be orally pleasured by — other women.
Over the 26 years Lauren and I have been together, I’ve learned quite a bit about cunnilingus not just from licking my own wife’s pussy thousands of times but also from watching her give and receive with other women. Plus, there’s my own good fortune of having fun opportunities, because of our lifestyle, to hone my skills while orally pleasuring other women.
This I will say: Some pussies are more enjoyable to orally pleasure than others. Some women taste and smell better than others. Some pussies are quite pretty and others less so. Some clitorises are large and some aren’t. Some women’s vaginal lips are tight and some are loose (I like tight and loose!). Some vaginas are silky smooth and some have stubble. Every pussy feels wonderful to be inside of but not all pussies are delicious. Fortunately, I’m married to a woman whose pussy is not just delicious; it’s irresistible.
With that, here are 10 cunnilingus tips gleaned from my own experience, along with watching Lauren give and receive with a few hundred women over the years.
Tip 1: Engage in lots of non-pussy-related foreplay
Although almost every woman enjoys being orally pleasured, don’t assume she wants it immediately. Always engage in lots of foreplay before getting between her legs to lick her pussy. Foreplay will get her really wet and horny meaning, by the time you lick her pussy, she’ll be desperate for your pleasure and nearly halfway to orgasm.
Ideas for foreplay:
- Kiss her
- Rub your hands all over her body
- Give her an erotic massage
- Lick and kiss her inner thighs
- Fondle and kiss her breasts
- Gently suck on and lick her nipples
- Squeeze her ass cheeks
- Tell her how hot she is
In essence, spend some time delighting in her and her body before getting between her legs to orally pleasure her. I am constantly reminded of the importance of foreplay to women’s sexual pleasure as I watch Lauren with other women.
Tip 2: Incorporate toys
We have lots of sex toys and enjoy using them. You don’t have to incorporate a toy but we find that some clitoral teasing with our wand vibrator can nicely complement oral sex. Lately, we’ve been doing more penetrative teasing with Lauren’s vibrating dildo while I lick her clitoris and she really enjoys it.
Incorporating toys during oral sex is a delicate balancing act because a vibrator or dildo shouldn’t be a substitute for the tongue and mouth but rather a pleasurable accessory. Ultimately, when Lauren or any other woman orgasms in my mouth, I want it to be because of how I pleasured her, not because I over-relied on a vibrator to get her off.
Here’s another toy idea: Slip an anal plug into her ass (be sure it’s lubed and she’s OK with anal penetration) to heighten her sexual pleasure while you orally enjoy her vagina.
Tip 3: Clitoral stimulation is a must
Most, but not all, women require clitoral stimulation to orgasm. When orally pleasuring a woman, stay focused on her clitoris BUT don’t be robotic and myopic about it. Bring some variety.
I observed over the years that Lauren, when orally pleasuring another woman, licks the clitoris, runs circles around it with her tongue, licks into the vaginal opening and at times has her sex partner’s entire vulva in her mouth as she gently sucks and licks. Her oral pleasure of other women has variety to it and keeps her female sex partner sexually engaged and wanting more. She likes the same from other women.
Tip 4: Use your fingers
I am constantly amazed by how sexually pleasurable it is for Lauren or any woman to have their vaginas fingered whether during foreplay or oral sex. During oral sex, I like to slide one, two or even three fingers inside and give her some penetrative play as I lick her clitoris. I have seen Piper (our girlfriend) and Lauren on many occasions take things a step further and actually fist each other, which I’m not able to do because my hands are a tad too large for that. The point is that some penetrative finger play feels quite good to women while they’re being orally pleasured. To get her hot, lick your fingers after they’ve been inside her!
Very naughty tip: Slide a well-lubed finger or even dildo into her ass while you lick her pussy (assuming she says that’s OK). This requires her, if she’s on her back, to spread her legs and hold them back so that her knees are near her shoulders, lifting her ass a bit off the bed…but oh my is it fun. That’s also a great position for anal sex.
Tip 5: Taste her
Enjoy her taste and her essence. Lick her deeply and tell her how much you love her taste. Hearing you tell her how much you enjoy her will make her hot.
Tip 6: Don’t be afraid to put her entire vulva in your mouth
As mentioned above, this is one I learned watching Lauren and other women. On occasion — for a few seconds at a time — just take as much of her vulva as you can into your mouth as you lick, gently suck and perhaps even get your tongue inside her. This will give you a good taste of her and it’ll also leave quite a mess on your mouth but that’s the joy of oral sex. Great oral sex is typically messy and sticky.
Tip 7: Ask her to play along and/or assist
I LOVE it when Lauren spreads her labia for me while I lick her clitoris, or perhaps holds her vibrating dildo in place while I orally pleasure her. After 26 years with her, watching her touch herself and seeing how she likes to get herself off still makes me hot! She enjoys playing along during oral sex but asking her to play along should be the exception, not the rule, because you’re the one pleasuring her — she’s not pleasuring herself.
Tip 8: Play with her tits
Orally pleasuring a woman allows for all kinds of multitasking! I enjoy reaching up and fondling Lauren’s breasts while I eat her pussy. Lauren has ample breasts and my view of her impressive bangers from between her legs is truly extraordinary. I like to cup her tits and pinch and run circles with my fingers around her very succulent nipples. Like most women, she enjoys breast play and sometimes likes to play with her own tits while I feast on her cunt. All that said, a woman doesn’t need to have large tits to enjoy breast play while you orally pleasure her vagina. The breasts and especially the nipples are quite erogenous!
Tip 9: After she orgasms, lick it all up
As she’s orgasming, keep pleasuring her. You might even see some vaginal contractions, which are thrilling to witness. Enjoy her building wetness and lick it up, taste it and swallow it. Lick your lips afterward. Tell her how delish she tastes and how much you enjoy her.
Another idea: Keep going and bring her to back to back orgasms! It’s all good!
Tip 10: Give her a few before fucking
If you’re a guy and you plan to fuck her after she’s cum in your mouth, give her a few moments to regroup before you start pounding away. Her vagina may be quite sensitive and need some time to “rest.” Or, perhaps she wants to cuddle after her orgasm. Lauren typically has no issue with going right into fucking after she’s cum — that way, she’s still ultra wet — but not all women are like that. Be patient.
Please share any cunnilingus tips you may have!
