Reverse Cowgirl: Pros (Many), Cons (None) and Why It Might Be Just as Fun as Doggy-Style

It’s G-spot friendly for the woman and the view of the action for the guy is second to none.

When it comes to G-spot-friendly sex positions, reverse cowgirl is maybe at the top of the list. It’s very similar to doggy-style in that it’s rear entry, only it gives the woman the control.

My wife, Lauren, will tell you that, in reverse cowgirl, my cock hits her G-spot with every thrust, which she says feels amazing. Doggy-style is also G-spot friendly but reverse cowgirl seems to be the most G-spot friendly of all. Her preferred technique is to straddle my hips, lean forward and put her hand(s) on my thigh(s), and just ride the hell out all seven of my inches.

She almost always balances herself with one hand on my thigh while with the other hand she’s masturbating with her fingers or our wand vibrator. If she’s riding me reverse cowgirl on the edge of the bed, I can easily masturbate her clit for her. Whatever style of reverse cowgirl we’re in, she orgasms almost every time.

A lot of women don’t realize they like reverse cowgirl until they do it for the first time, and then they love it. It seems like it’s a complicated position but it’s not — it’s very easy to do.

Everyone wins

In reverse cowgirl, everyone wins. She gets tons of pleasure from her G-spot being stimulated, and she also loves being on top. The guy gets an epic million-dollar view of the action. On the list of sex positions affording amazing visuals for the guy, reverse cowgirl is in a league of its own — even better than doggy-style.

In reverse cowgirl, when she’s leaning forward (toward my ankles), nothing — and I mean nothing —is left to my imagination, including of course the amazing intercourse happening but also her beautiful, round ass and her pretty, cute asshole, which I’m probably playing with. It gets me so hot to see Lauren’s labia wrapped around my cock and watch her have her way with me. That’s why you always want to have the lights on during reverse cowgirl sex. Even better: Have reverse cowgirl sex in broad daylight.

The insane POV is not only great for the guy; it also turns on the woman because she’s getting off knowing the guy is enjoying the view of her ass, her pussy and all the action. We have several POV reverse cowgirl sex tapes shot with our GoPro and Lauren has watched them and gets super turned on by the view — it’s graphic and epic.

Don’t get me wrong: Reverse cowgirl isn’t just about the view. It feels really, really good for both partners.

Harmony

The key to mind-blowing reserve cowgirl sex is for both partners to be moving in harmony with each other. With experience, Lauren and I have gotten the harmony aspects of reverse cowgirl down pat, but it takes practice, trial and error, communication and, for the guy, observation.

My big takeaway from years of experience with this position is for the guy to just let the woman ride him however she wants and for him to time his upward thrusts for when she’s coming down on him. But don’t thrust too much; again, the key is to let her be in control. Just let her ride the way she wants to ride. So hot!

Threesomes

Reverse cowgirl is a favorite during threesomes, especially when we’re with our girlfriend, Piper, or another woman. My only knock is that if I’m eating Piper or Lauren’s pussy while the other is riding me reverse cowgirl, yeah, that’s super hot but then I lose the view. The view is the position’s differentiator but, then again, so is Piper or Lauren’s pussy in my mouth so it’s all good…..

Anal

Like doggy-style, reverse cowgirl offers incredible access to her asshole. Lauren greatly enjoys anal play in reverse cowgirl. We have had anal sex many times in reverse cowgirl but it’s kind of awkward angling (doggy-style or even missionary with legs pulled back so the ass is off the mattress are preferred anal sex positions).

Reverse Cowgirl Pros

• Depending on variation, affords depth of penetration.
• Hit her G-spot with every thrust.
• Gives her control.
• Allows for anal play on her, including DP.
• Allows her to masturbate or, depending on the variation, for him to masturbate her clit.
• Second-to-none view of the action and her backside, especially if she’s leaning forward. There is simply no other sex position we know of that affords a better view. Remember: Leave the lights on or fuck reverse cowgirl in broad daylight!
• Lots of variations, including her leaning forward and also back for different angles, and also her riding him as he’s sitting on the edge of the bed.
• Good for spanking but I prefer to spank Lauren in doggy-style, when I’m in control. It feels strange to spank her in reverse cowgirl when she’s in control.
• Amazing position for a hot POV sex tape.
• Excellent position for threesome sex.

Cons

• No eye contact but still feels very intimate because it allows both lovers to move together, though she’s the one controlling it all.
• Maybe it’s just me but reverse cowgirl can make my hips sore.
• Nothing else I can think of!

As much as Lauren and I love doggy-style, reverse cowgirl is almost just as enjoyable for both of us and these days we’re doing reverse cowgirl more and more.

For all the reasons listed above — G-spot-friendly, second-to-none view, anal access, lots of fun in threesome situations— reverse cowgirl, like doggy-style, is a position we highly recommend couples enjoy with the lights on and maybe even a camera rolling.