SpanishRedComplaining that my fear is making your dating life harder is like complaining about a gnat in your…I grew up with a stepfather who sexualized children. He didn’t abuse me, but I learned, from an early age, what life is like when you’re…May 23May 23
SpanishRedTo be a Misandrist, You Kinda Have to Hate Men. Rational Fear isn’t Hatred.Yesterday, a woman published a list of reasons women would rather encounter a bear than a man in the woods. Here are some of her reasons:May 12May 12
SpanishRedNot All Rapists Know They’re Rapists (Obvious trigger warning is obvious)“We’re not all trying to be creepy.” — A readerJan 271Jan 271
SpanishRedThings I Learned About Abuse From an Online Gaming CompanyIn late 2021, an online casino company called Playtika bought a successful design game named Redecor. The new business didn’t care much…Jan 181Jan 181
SpanishRedOnline Abuse Doesn’t Kill Because It Hurts.Online abuse leads to almost 12 deaths in every 100, 000 teens. Targets are twice as likely to commit suicide than others in their age…Oct 22, 20231Oct 22, 20231
SpanishRedSubmit Was Borne Out of a Dumpster FireA quick note to my Facebook friends: This post will not make sense to you. Don’t even try.Oct 20, 20233Oct 20, 20233
SpanishRedNo, You Aren’t Right. You Just Need a New Pair of GlassesWhen high-definition monitors hit the market, I hopped along to get one of my own. When I fired it up, it didn’t look much better than my…Sep 9, 20232Sep 9, 20232
SpanishRedPronouns Aren’t a Free Speech Issue (TW transphobia)“Forcing me to use your pronouns removes my free speech rights.” — Eric the Cis Man.Sep 9, 20233Sep 9, 20233
SpanishRedLessons in Women’s Safety“Most women won’t know they are pregnant for the first month or so, when they might still be drinking. The risk is real. Why take the…Aug 30, 20233Aug 30, 20233
SpanishRedThe Word Cis Just Acknowledges You Aren’t the Only Valid Human.There once was a little blue unicorn who lived in a little blue town. All the unicorns there were blue, so everywhere he went, his identity…Aug 8, 2023Aug 8, 2023