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Killing us with kindness

Something I have always told my children is that you can defeat bullies by just being nice to them. By refusing to return malice, you…

Aug 28, 2019

Aug 28, 2019

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Lessons From Love Island: Part One

Full disclosure: I mocked my brother in law for watching this last year. I despise reality TV. This year however, I was drawn into it a…

Jul 10, 2019

Lessons From Love Island: Part One

Jul 10, 2019

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White Women: The Band Aids of Diversity

I am writing this because man alive, do we reallyneed to look at how people are reacting to white women vs other URM. IWe need white women…

Jan 22, 2019

White Women: The Band Aids of Diversity

Jan 22, 2019

Stella

101 Of Hiring

Looking for the best candidates? Convinced there is a shortage of suitably qualified people? Still using resumes and taking referrals from…

Jan 5, 2019

Jan 5, 2019

Stella

Are you sitting comfortably? Too bad…

Dear White People,

Oct 30, 2018

Are you sitting comfortably? Too bad…

Oct 30, 2018

Stella

Walk The Walk

One of the things that really intrigues me about security people is how much we take people at face value, despite being the ones who…

Oct 2, 2018

Oct 2, 2018

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Guilt And Shame and Bullies

Before we start, let us look at this lovely tweet from a person seeking to laugh at themselves and also to inspire others not to give up. I…

Sep 12, 2018

Guilt And Shame and Bullies

Sep 12, 2018

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An Assault On Privacy

Before I begin, I would like to mention the work of Anna Lauren Hoffmann on Data Violence. I feel that her work has inspired and influenced…

Aug 21, 2018

An Assault On Privacy

Aug 21, 2018

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Here are a few words on networking and “lists of women in..”

My aim here is not to criticize genuine attempts to do good. I do however want people to see how these lists can detract from inclusion…

Jul 27, 2018

Jul 27, 2018

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Why Defcon is ok but toxic isn’t just a Britney song.

I have written so many versions of this. Basically, I went to my first Vegas, first Defcon in 2017 and you know what, it was ok. I had fun…

Jun 7, 2018

Why Defcon is ok but toxic isn’t just a Britney song.

Jun 7, 2018

Stella

Stella

I write about privacy in abusive relationships and also muse about inclusion in infosec. I have opinions but I listen. Views are mine.

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