Either my father was going to accept that I was transgender, or I would no longer have a father

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Consistency, persistence, clarity, and self-compassion

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My journey from ‘crisis’ to ‘wonderfully normal’ as a trans woman

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How the ending of The Good Place helped me deal with the loss of my father.

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One solution to wrestling with the eternal struggle of “Where did I stick that draft of my novel/blog post/poem?”

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Allison Holt

I write words and I write code, and I’m frequently surprised at how similar those processes are. Email: medium@alli.fyi.

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