You know something’s wrong but you can’t quite work out what. — Here are some signs that your past might be causing problems. 1. Low self-esteem Your feelings of worthlessness didn’t come from nowhere. Although many children of narcissists don’t consciously experience these difficult feelings, they are still there, running in the background and influencing your everyday life. Your choices, your relationships, and your ability to withstand stress are all affected by low self-worth.