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Tory Gonzalez

Tory Gonzalez

The Act of Consent — Online Dating During COVID

The universe will give you the same lesson over and over and over again until you are willing to hear it and respond accordingly. The…

Oct 7, 2020

Oct 7, 2020

Tory Gonzalez

The Importance of Pause — How I Freed Myself From a Codependent Relationship

My dating history is relatively short. My first relationship was young love. My last relationship was one I’m still unable to unpack, even…

Apr 7, 2020

Apr 7, 2020

Tory Gonzalez

When You Care Too Much

I think most people are caring, or I’d like to believe that. People seem to identify me as a very caring person. I do go above and beyond…

Sep 1, 2019

Sep 1, 2019

Tory Gonzalez

Depression: The Cost of Losing it All

We’ve all lost. We’ve lost people and friends; we’ve lost time and travel. Expenses wrapped in poor decisions. We’ve run up credit cards…

Aug 28, 2019

Aug 28, 2019

Tory Gonzalez

When Listening to Your Fears Ruins Your Relationships

As an adult, we go through trying seasons of our lives. After graduating high school and figuring our where our life resides in our early…

Apr 15, 2019

Apr 15, 2019

Tory Gonzalez

The Secret Shame of Staying-Infidelity Opened Up

Right now in the world someone is being cheated on. Someone is thinking about cheating, someone is agreeing to share another, someone…

Nov 16, 2017

Nov 16, 2017

Tory Gonzalez

Why the Late Texting Game Never Works

We fall into it all the time. We don’t get what we want with our partner, crush, or that person we’re eyeing. We want them to respond a…

Apr 17, 2017

Apr 17, 2017

Tory Gonzalez

To the Person Who’s Been Cheated On

I consider myself a strong person, a person who feels a lot. The thing about human emotion is it a reminder to your body, and mainly to…

Feb 6, 2017

Feb 6, 2017

Tory Gonzalez

Love her, Leave her, Let her go

I remember him telling me I was too good for him. I stood there bewildered. I mean here was a guy, skin the color of cinnamon, staring at…

Sep 28, 2016

Sep 28, 2016

Tory Gonzalez

Darkness and Light

On June 20th, 2004, the car I was traveling in started rolling across the median at 80 miles an hour. I remember the car’s first flip. And…

Jul 22, 2016

Jul 22, 2016

Tory Gonzalez

Tory Gonzalez

I could waste all my time and money just trying to look right, but it wouldn't change who I am, in my heart, if I look like a dime.

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