Tory GonzalezThe Act of Consent — Online Dating During COVIDThe universe will give you the same lesson over and over and over again until you are willing to hear it and respond accordingly. The…Oct 7, 2020Oct 7, 2020
Tory GonzalezThe Importance of Pause — How I Freed Myself From a Codependent RelationshipMy dating history is relatively short. My first relationship was young love. My last relationship was one I’m still unable to unpack, even…Apr 7, 2020Apr 7, 2020
Tory GonzalezWhen You Care Too MuchI think most people are caring, or I’d like to believe that. People seem to identify me as a very caring person. I do go above and beyond…Sep 1, 2019Sep 1, 2019
Tory GonzalezDepression: The Cost of Losing it AllWe’ve all lost. We’ve lost people and friends; we’ve lost time and travel. Expenses wrapped in poor decisions. We’ve run up credit cards…Aug 28, 2019Aug 28, 2019
Tory GonzalezWhen Listening to Your Fears Ruins Your RelationshipsAs an adult, we go through trying seasons of our lives. After graduating high school and figuring our where our life resides in our early…Apr 15, 2019Apr 15, 2019
Tory GonzalezThe Secret Shame of Staying-Infidelity Opened UpRight now in the world someone is being cheated on. Someone is thinking about cheating, someone is agreeing to share another, someone…Nov 16, 20171Nov 16, 20171
Tory GonzalezWhy the Late Texting Game Never WorksWe fall into it all the time. We don’t get what we want with our partner, crush, or that person we’re eyeing. We want them to respond a…Apr 17, 2017Apr 17, 2017
Tory GonzalezTo the Person Who’s Been Cheated OnI consider myself a strong person, a person who feels a lot. The thing about human emotion is it a reminder to your body, and mainly to…Feb 6, 2017Feb 6, 2017
Tory GonzalezLove her, Leave her, Let her goI remember him telling me I was too good for him. I stood there bewildered. I mean here was a guy, skin the color of cinnamon, staring at…Sep 28, 20161Sep 28, 20161
Tory GonzalezDarkness and LightOn June 20th, 2004, the car I was traveling in started rolling across the median at 80 miles an hour. I remember the car’s first flip. And…Jul 22, 2016Jul 22, 2016