PinnedOluchiinModern WomenHe Played Me Like an Electric GuitarAs he romanced his way into my bed and bank account2d ago2d ago
PinnedOluchi7 Obvious Yet Overlooked Signs That a Man is Into YouWhat I’ve learned from a few good men — and a lot of bad ones5d ago25d ago2
PinnedOluchiSome Uncomfortable Truths About Why Women Entertain Men They Don’t Like or WantSome of this felt like a confession I hadn’t intended to make.Jul 219Jul 219
PinnedOluchiWhy Black Men Will F*ck You Over But Expect You to Keep Doing Right By HimIf a man plays with or fumbles your heart, don’t ask him why he does it. Ask yourself why you let him.Jul 1214Jul 1214
PinnedOluchiinModern WomenA Mother’s Quiet Pain and Secret Shame as Her Adult Daughter Drifts Towards Estrangement“Your silence will not protect you.” — Audre LordeMay 637May 637
OluchiMy Addiction to and Recovery from Love, Men and Relationships is Why I Can’t Stop Writing About…I write about men so much because I’ve burned a lot of brain cells to understand them. Primarily because I believed I really needed them…Jul 243Jul 243
Oluchi3 Beliefs and Behaviors that Keep Older Women PoorIf this speaks to you, I hope this will inspire you to expand how you see and practice self-care. Jul 18Jul 18
OluchiWhy Strong Black Women Struggle with VulnerabilityIf we are wired for connection, why do Black Women struggle with vulnerability?Jun 281Jun 281
OluchiI Have My Younger Self to Thank for Pushing Me to Decenter MenThe woman who centers men loses herself.Jun 185Jun 185
OluchiinThe Straight ShotWhy I Left a Good Black Man and My One RegretIt was a ‘struggle love’ relationship, but not for reasons you might think.Jun 146Jun 146
