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How ‘Trad Men’ Make Me Ever More Certain That Remaining Single is the Right Choice

I used to really resent being a lifelong single, and for a long time I blamed myself for the fact that men have never shown me any…

Mar 26

How ‘Trad Men’ Make Me Ever More Certain That Remaining Single is the Right Choice

Mar 26

Fat Walrus

Having a Cluster B Personality Disorder Does Not Make You a Piece of Sh*t

There’s a lot of stigma around the ‘dramatic and erratic’ cluster of personality disorders comprised of Borderline, Antisocial, Histrionic…

Feb 18

Having a Cluster B Personality Disorder Does Not Make You a Piece of Sh*t

Feb 18

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I’m no longer pretending not to be autistic and mentally ill in order to get a job

If employers see my poor mental health as a character flaw, I don’t want to work for them anyway

Jan 6

I’m no longer pretending not to be autistic and mentally ill in order to get a job

Jan 6

Fat Walrus

I am Turning the Age my Parents were when They Got Married, and it’s Got me Feeling Sad

Next month, I’ll be the big 35. I can’t stop these mournful feelings from flooding in. I can’t even bring myself to say the number. Is it…

Dec 8, 2023

I am Turning the Age my Parents were when They Got Married, and it’s Got me Feeling Sad

Dec 8, 2023

Fat Walrus

Why I, as an Autistic Woman, Still Feel Excluded From Traditional Feminist Spaces

With Variety Magazine and other big media names celebrating the power of women, I am left to ask why, as an autistic woman, I do not feel…

Nov 24, 2023

Why I, as an Autistic Woman, Still Feel Excluded From Traditional Feminist Spaces

Nov 24, 2023

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Happy 4th of July. F*ck the U.S.A.

It’s a bit late, but I was tired on the actual 4th and didn’t get to finish this until now. Where I live, the celebration doesn’t even stop…

Jul 7, 2023

Happy 4th of July. F*ck the U.S.A.

Jul 7, 2023

Fat Walrus

People Are Bullying Neurodivergents and Making it About “Work Ethic”

I sat here for some time trying to think of an apt description for what I see as the last acceptable form of hypocrisy: Capitalist…

May 25, 2023

May 25, 2023

Fat Walrus

Fuck Your Fast-Paced Environment

I’m just gonna say it: employers hate autistic people

Apr 14, 2023

Fuck Your Fast-Paced Environment

Apr 14, 2023

Fat Walrus

My Anxiety is Not Up for Critique

This experience has stayed with me for some time, and serves as a constant reminder to me that my anxiety is unacceptable to the world…

Feb 23, 2023

My Anxiety is Not Up for Critique

Feb 23, 2023

Fat Walrus

Controlling Your Partner’s Friendships with the Opposite Sex is Super Uncool

Without meaning to be sexist, every time I’ve lost a friend because of a jealous and controlling partner, it’s been a woman not allowing…

Dec 19, 2022

Controlling Your Partner’s Friendships with the Opposite Sex is Super Uncool

Dec 19, 2022

Fat Walrus

Fat Walrus

Sorry to be a sellout by changing my name, but I am seeking opportunities again and decided I just can't have this page show up in Google.

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