The other day, my dear friend wrote to me: “You should not take it so close. This is not your war”. It made me stop and think. Is it really not my war? If not, why is it so painful? Every new day brings more pain. And more shame. — Brené Brown, in her book about shame, debates that there is a difference between embarrassment, guilt, humiliation, and shame. Well, maybe there is. But since the 24th of February, all of those feelings have been part of my everyday life.