Lycos TintoreThe Barbie Movie: A Trigger Warning for Divorcing MenIts been a few months since my teetering marriage finally fell apart. The situation moved quickly from her dropping intimacy, to dropping…Jul 25, 20231Jul 25, 20231
Lycos TintoreDestroying the MandalaWe used to take the kids to see Buddhist monks, who spent days making a sand mandala, destroy it. The message was about the impermanence of…Jun 2, 2023Jun 2, 2023
Lycos TintoreStop Reopening the WoundFor I can’t even say how many nights, I would come into bed when my wife was asleep and just watch her, hear her breathing, and remember…May 30, 20231May 30, 20231
Lycos TintoreHow Are You?“Fine,” I say, as the umpteenth person asks me that question at a school function. I showed up on my own with the kids, nothing strange…May 22, 2023May 22, 2023
Lycos TintoreFighting Against RealityI met with a therapist today. We started going to him a few months ago as a marital therapist, but he quickly said that the reality is my…May 15, 2023May 15, 2023
Lycos TintoreTyping in a Dark BedHere is something that kills me. I’m typing this is a dark bedroom, sitting next to my sleeping wife. Here is why it is killing me.May 14, 2023May 14, 2023
Lycos TintoreWhy Am I So Angry? A Divorce Journal EntryAs I was taking a walk today, I started thinking “Why am I so angry? Why does this situation feel so impossible?” It’s unhealthy to live…May 8, 20231May 8, 20231
Lycos TintoreDivorce? A Journal EntrySince I can’t start from the beginning, I will start in the middle. I am broken.May 7, 20231May 7, 20231