ONE TWO PUNCH — UNAPOLOGETICALLY ME

Mae Jacolo Aguilar"apple"
7 min readJun 23, 2018

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B.S. Nursing from West Negros University (2010) Answered 5m ago

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What are some situations that can cause the narcissistic rage?

Hmmm.. Narcissistic rage? ahh, delightful.

Well, all you gotta to do is live well, look great, have a wonderful disposition in life, think out of the box, express your thoughts, practice your principle, being confident and smart, pursue your artistic passions, enunciate sarcasm, speak different languages, earn a College degree, be born AS an INFJ, speak your mind, be a fearless feminist, well rounded, enjoy autonomy, happily settled with a loving spouse, specialize on HUMAN BEHAVIOR, be well aware of your strengths and weaknesses, define proper bounderies, love animals with no discrimination, not putting up with a narcissistic d_ _che’s f_ckery, be a thick-skinned b_tch, most of all knowing how to spew the toxins back to the rightful source. — -a dose of their own…hahaha WELL PROVOKED by Mae Jacolo Aguilar”apple” on i call u K for kowardly accomplice; a histrionic life…

bullying is for toxic people and self protection is for the neurotypicals

who am i to deprive u of a dose of your own medicine? unlike u im not selfish so enjoy…

The bad news is, bluntly, Cluster b personalities are toxic, hateful brutes who tend to latch on like parasites…

This is their only way of ensuring their infamous existence.

But the good news is, Just keep in mind that no one would ever desire to put down a “loser”. TARGETS ARE USUALLY FABULOUS PEOPLE WHO HAVE STRONG CONVICTION OF WHO THEY ARE..

Narcs are just very unhappy people to begin with and they have got nothing positive to offer anyone. You cannot give what you do not have within yourself.

These one of a kind beings from the other side of the planet are hooked on sabotaging attempts and crazy-making stuff they do to gain popularity at other people’s expense. All in the hopes of trying to cover up their deep wound of insufficiency and incapability. They hate Therapists so.. They’d rather self medicate by feeding onto the positive traits and energy of others thereby making them emotional vampires and rapists. It is crucial that you stand your ground firm the very thing they want you to do is give in to how they want you to behave. — -classic manipulation tactic

Being control freaks make them feel powerful and it is the only way they know how to at least make believe that they are someone relevant.

Where did all this rage come from?

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Narcissists are whiny 2 year- olds trapped in worthless adult bodies. This narcissistic rage of theirs is a result of neglect and lack compassion by their guardians as infants. In other words these people have developed a fear of abandonment and a constant agonizing feeling of just not being loved and cared for at all.

Infact, if you may have noticed most if not all narcs, are down right improper sharing unnecessary and distasteful details about their bedroom affairs in public. Narcissists’ hall of shame: Sex Addiction or NO sex ? by Mae Jacolo Aguilar”apple” on i call u K for kowardly accomplice; a histrionic life…This is somewhat a way of showing off just how much people want them and that is part of their grand delusion. Bragging thru casual talk is their subtle manipulative scheme attempting to gain attention. They are addicted to that certain high that to them even negative attention is worth their effort. — -narc supply

They have the strong compulsion to lie all the time. They say the exact opposite of how they actually feel and see people. IF A NARC TELLS YOU HE/SHE DOES NOT CARE, HONEY, IT’S A LIE… THEY DO CARE ABOUT YOU AND A-LOT. A NARCISSIST WILL NOT WASTE EFFORT IN TELLING YOU THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE IF YOU DO NOT AFFECT THEM THAT MUCH! Just sayin…

There is no truth in everything that comes out of a narcissist’s mouth. These negative and toxic language is actually what/how they want to describe themselves. But that would incur a lot of pain so to make it a lot bearable for them, they rather use “projection”. Yes! narcs way of dumping all the unpleasant truth about who they are onto another person. It is like hitting two birds in one stone as their primary intention is to:

  • gaslight” a target to relieve themselves from the stress caused their rage, an attempt to transfer all the emotional load to others.
  • sadists” by nature, narcs take delight in harming another person. Preferably people who are happy and successful as they serve a constant reminder of the narcs’ worthless persona, to the narc therefore they deserve punishment…

Narcissists are self-entitled b_stards and they shamelessly play this GOD-like figure pointing their fingers on random people and sentencing them. These delusional image they desperately maintain is like a hologram version of themselves. Once someone disrupts that they lose grip of their sanity and become enraged.

This person is now the source of their separation from that delusion, supposedly keeping the narc happily hooked on that high feeling of GRANDIOSITY. It is like taking away a toddler’s fave toy. They easily transition from once a happy baby, almost hypnotized if you will like this: well, creepy but at least contained..

to being CHUCKY…

How do you awaken CHUCKY?

Simple, if who you are and what you do trigger these narcs to feel shame and incapacitated.

It is important to keep your head clear that YOU are not the problem here but the narcissist. As a result of his/her psychological impoverishment, the narc fails to recognize the TRUE source of the problem. They tend to bark up at the wrong tree, when all the while the real culprit is the one who creates his very own storms, no other than the NARC himself.

Projection (Psychological)

1) An unconscious self-defence mechanism characterised by a person unconsciously attributing their own issues onto someone or something else as a form of delusion and denial.

2) A way to blame others for your own negative thoughts by repressing them and then attributing them to someone else. Due to the sorrowful nature of delusion and denial it is very difficult for the target to be able to clarify the reality of the situation.

3) A way to transfer guilt for your own thoughts, emotions and actions onto another as a way of not admitting your guilt to yourself.

Urban Dictionary: Projection

SO REMEMBER THIS, A NARCISSIST’S MOUTH IS just A FILTHY PIT OF MADE UP JUNK ABOUT YOU. WHEN EVER A PERSON TELLS YOU DIFFERENTLY ABOUT YOURSELF THAT IS A NARCISSIST’S DIRTY SCAM, NO LESS.. MAKE NO MISTAKE OF IT.

HOW DO YOU GO ABOUT IT?

IGNORE THESE INSOLENT monkeys, DISREGARD THEIR opinions AND CONFINE THEM WITHIN their CAGE OF MISERY by LIVING YOUR BEAUTIFUL LIFE AS IS, WHERE IS…

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Mae Jacolo Aguilar”apple”THE MULTI- TOPIC BLOG- writes about personal interests& passion.specializing on HUMAN BEHAVIOR. elicits toxic reaction by annoyance.certified weirdo& a nurse

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Mae Jacolo Aguilar"apple"

THE MULTI- TOPIC BLOG- writes about personal interests& passion.specializing on HUMAN BEHAVIOR. elicits toxic reaction by annoyance.certified weirdo& a nurse