An Introduction to Female Performance Anxiety
Squirting is NOT superior to any other type of orgasm
When I was writing about my own squirting experiences I did some research (as usual) to see others’ opinions, myths and facts. I checked out some videos and I even bumped into an online course teaching guys how to make their women squirt.
And I asked my guy about it too. And while I am fully aware that his opinion is not representative or almighty, what he said was so obvious it gave me a pause.
I heard and read about women who squirt every time they climax, I read how it’s not always comfortable and how embarrassing it can get if the guy is not ready or mature enough to handle it.
I am not an all-time-squirter. It doesn’t happen accidentally — and except for the very first time it never comes as a surprise either. There are very specific, learnable movements that will get me there. It’s predictable but not guaranteed. Sort of like a regular clitoral orgasm — if it’s done right it’s highly likely that it will happen, but even then, I can lose it midway.
The guy I am seeing (I could call him my boyfriend but I am not committed enough, so let’s call him Aaron) was excited to hear that I can squirt from the first minute we started talking sex. It was like a casual interview…
