If You Cheat, Should You Tell?
Clearing the air before getting caught
Most relationships are never the same after cheating.
A secret as heavy as this can weigh on your heart and give you sleepless nights. This only applies to first-time cheaters. Obviously.
In a serial cheater’s case, it’s as easy as fixing tea. Normalcy resumes and they improve on their two-faced personality.
Commitment provides structure and stability. If you find yourself struggling to stick with your partner, leave the relationship. You will be better off single and living life free from relationship expectations.
If you enjoy the benefits of being in a relationship, DON’T CHEAT. It’s that simple.
Should You Come Clean When Dating or Married?
Regardless of whether you’re celebrating your first anniversary or 5 years, cheating is dishonorable. If you failed to honor the loyalty code in a relationship at least honor the respect code by coming clean.
If you’re brave enough to cheat, apply the same rules when it comes to disclosing your affair.
Let them not hear about it from someone else.
It’s important to come clean and leave your fate in your partner's hands. They have a right to decide whether they want to stick around and work on the relationship or leave. The other person deserves to know.
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