Zina PatelLewisMy uncle calls me Lewis. Like in Lewis and Clark. He says that because I’m not pursuing medicine, engineering, or law, like most Indians…2 min read·May 18, 2024--1--1
Zina PatelShe/her/sA lot of people assume that because of my short hair and masculine clothes, my pronouns are they/them or he/him. Last weekend, as my family…2 min read·Jan 16, 2024--5--5
Zina PatelHomeWith all the traveling I’ve done this year from Bali to Kerala to Auckland, I’ve been thinking a lot about the concept of ‘home.’ As a…2 min read·Dec 21, 2023----
Zina PatelAdvaitaAs the sun began its descent, painting the sky in hues of amber and lavender, I found solace in a leisurely stroll alongside my dear…3 min read·Nov 13, 2023----
Zina PatelAccessible“The deeper you heal, the higher you raise the bar on who has access to you. And, it’s not about arrogance. It’s about protecting the…4 min read·Nov 9, 2023--1--1
Zina PatelInner CirclePrem Uncle’s call was unexpected, yet it carried a profound emotional weight. As I picked up the phone, I could feel my heart race with…3 min read·Oct 18, 2023----
Zina PatelChampion DadI was in Chicago last week for a queer conference for MBA students. The initial excitement was tinged with a nervous energy that seemed to…2 min read·Oct 13, 2023----
Zina PatelGriefMy mother has been grappling with the news of my Megan Rapinoe-inspired haircut, and it has not been an easy journey for her. Just…2 min read·Sep 29, 2023----
Zina PatelFront Yard FriendsI was listening to the We Can Do Hard Things podcast yesterday. Glennon Doyle talked about the concept of categorizing friends using a…2 min read·Sep 21, 2023----
Zina PatelBaby Steps for a Baby GayAfter getting my haircut, I made a daring choice to step out on my own for the first time. The crisp air welcomed me as I leisurely roamed…4 min read·Sep 14, 2023----