Become a Social Nerd. Here’s Why?
A genuine advice to socialize yourself given by an introvert.
I was an introvert, Yeah really I was.
Look, there’s nothing wrong with wanting a healthy conversation with someone which adds some value to our life. I hope you understand that this does not make us attention seekers. Right?
How Was I Before
To become a sociable person is never taught in my education system. And I regret that the most.
So, I used to talk to those from whom I communicated before. Never tried to introduce myself to new ones.
Knowing the other side of the coin is not bad (dealing with different people with different mindset).
This way we know the mindsets of different beings. Resisting our thoughts which are only me and I oriented.
Now, let’s talk about the healthy sides of being a social nerd…
Social Skills
Getting an insane amount of social skills is not everyone’s goal, which is truly acceptable.
Whereas, exposing yourself to a new perspective on a regular basis can help you to get decent social skills. This helps a lot in negotiation, communication and networking skills. You all know these are required numerous times.
Gathering information
Without my intentions these subjects keep coming – mutual learning and diverse perspectives. So, now you can see how these can take you a step ahead.
Also, socializing with others benefits in clarification and updating ourselves.
Start from here
If you have come this way following this story. I think you are interested in socializing yourself.
Here is how to start…
Start talking to anyone you see, with relevant topics your conversation can go a long way. First start with elders because they always want someone to talk with (my personal experience). After time you will see yourself in a talking state.
Just go with the flow.
If I have missed something, let me know. And follow me on medium Aman Daniel :)
See you in the next one. Bye.
