by Lisa Martens. Feminist, mixed, opinionated. The kinds of stories that make people on my friends list wonder if I’m deranged.
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I Have Mental Illness Survivor’s Guilt
I Have Mental Illness Survivor’s Guilt
A couple of people I grew up with now have very serious mental illnesses that prevent them from working and leading normal lives. We’re…
you should be grateful
you should be grateful
you should be grateful you live in this society, in this age. you should be grateful because anywhere else, you’d be abused, you’d be…
so what if i regret not having kids?
so what if i regret not having kids?
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it’s worse when it’s no one’s fault
it’s worse when it’s no one’s fault
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to the woman whose boyfriend was arguing at the airport
to the woman whose boyfriend was arguing at the airport
i hated the way he said, “why do you care what these people think? you focus on the wrong shit” when you asked him to stop making a scene…
Freeing Myself From The Idea Of Kids
Freeing Myself From The Idea Of Kids
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they were abusive, then they died
they were abusive, then they died
they were abusive, then they died. they got married because they had to, had kids they despised, and made it their problem every step of…
You’re not supposed to point out patriarchy
You’re not supposed to point out patriarchy
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it breaks my heart to see you accepting less
it breaks my heart to see you accepting less
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being a sugar baby is not the solution to my capitalism problem.
being a sugar baby is not the solution to my capitalism problem.
I have seen a lot of pro-sugar baby content lately, and I’m not against it. I don’t think that lifestyle is morally wrong at all, and if it…
I’m not a god; I’m a queen.
I’m not a god; I’m a queen.
I’m not a god; I’m a queen. I am angry, I do not forgive. I am not patient.
Someone with your name and photo is making weird LinkedIn posts.
Someone with your name and photo is making weird LinkedIn posts.
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Here’s What NOT To Write Your College Admissions Essay About
Here’s What NOT To Write Your College Admissions Essay About
Don’t write about the pandemic, or mental health, or your family. Got it??
A brief history of my birthday parties
A brief history of my birthday parties
My birthday is coming up, and I am trying to actually do something for it. For the past four years, my birthdays have been very low key…
But You Cancer Ghosted.
But You Cancer Ghosted.
I would have loved to experienced this with you, but you cancer ghosted.
I’m An Apology Step.
I’m An Apology Step.
I was a step. He had to vent, to apologize, to explain. He wrote a long letter where he tried to talk about some of the things he did to…
you’re an expert on him and he’s gone
you’re an expert on him and he’s gone
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he said you’re better off dead than abused
he said you’re better off dead than abused
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my monster grew old
my monster grew old
my monster grew old, and now no one believes they were a monster.