The 7 Dimensions of Fulfilling Connection

KUNDAN CHHABRA
Better Relationships
3 min readAug 31, 2015

One night, via swing dancing, I came to a profound realization.
I’d been coming to this realization for a while now.

For example, I’ve known for a while that the steps are not that important (although they may be important to a beginner).

What’s actually more important is the connection.

But that night solidified it for me.

What I realized is that there are the following seven dimensions of connection:

1. What I am feeling.

2. What she is feeling.

3. What I want to feel.

4. What she wants to feel.

5. What I’d like her to feel

6. What she’d like me to feel

7. How open we both are to what we are already feeling AND to moving into a different feeling (how much we are enjoying the current feeling and how much we’d enjoy a different feeling).

So what’s happening is not really a dance of steps.

What’s actually happening is literally a dance of emotions.

And it’s played out within these 7 dimensions. So, awareness of these 7 dimensions is very important. Maybe you could even call that awareness an 8th dimension.

And so it’s not about leading her into a different step.

It’s leading her into different emotions, and the movements are only a catalyst.

For example, opening the position gives her more freedom, creativity and creative expression.

The cradle or sweet-heart hug gives her a sense of closer connection (and me too).

Moving forward within the cradle (or even just holding hands and moving) gives a feeling of direction, partnership and venturing into something intriguing.

The close and even intimate positions can provide her with more stability (if that is the man’s clear intention and if he is very present and in tune with her).

And there is so much more!

It’s practically infinite!

As a result, I had more fun than I ever had in my life with swing dancing or any dancing with women!

I felt the richest most rejuvenating connections ever!

And I now realize that this doesn’t just happen on the dance floor.

It happens every moment.

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KUNDAN CHHABRA
Better Relationships

Creator of "the Alignment Code" & “Mental Kung Fu” for deep long-term fulfillment+clear boundaries: helping visionaries express their most meaningful idea yet!