Singles

Things married people should avoid saying to the single thirty-somethings

“Hey, if you ever want to talk about it…”

Nice, but what is there to talk about? All talking about it ever does it rehash old pains, reaffirming the…

What do you hate?

I hate the fact that every month when I PMS, I feel worthless and ugly and unwanted because no one has ever asked me out on a date. Almost two years ago, I lay in bed feeling stupid because I realised that my only wish for my 31st birthday was that someone — anyone — would actually invite me on…

What’s it like to be single & female in the church?

So I’m embarking on a new project (yay!) — instead of me always giving my perspective on being single and female in the church, I’d like to hear what YOU have to say.

Why isn’t he here yet?

thoughts on being an 29 year old virgin 

It’s been approximately 15 years since I first started being interested in boys. That’s pretty late, according to what I gather from current norms, but kind of average back then. My first crush…

Do you have an Isaac?

by Mei Yen Ch’ng

The title of this post is somewhat strange I suppose but it relates to something once prophesied over me many years ago... almost 20 years ago. That was my Isaac, something I held on for so many years.

No, sometimes Jesus is not enough

On recognising the validity of your needs and desires

I’ve somewhat given up on Boundless recently because reading it usually brings on a flood of tears or angry frustration. But I read this on Boundless…