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Brett Jenae Tomlin
Jan 12, 2023
19 Things to Love on Medium
19 Things to Love on Medium
Why you should stay
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Feb 6, 2023
Goodbye, Homewrecker: Getting Lost and the Stars that Guide Us Home
Goodbye, Homewrecker: Getting Lost and the Stars that Guide Us Home
Some constants are great, but some need to be given the cowgirl boot
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 18, 2023
Latest Stories
Weekend Update: Hello from Dallas!
Weekend Update: Hello from Dallas!
A little anxious enthusiasm
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Aug 12, 2023
Breast Update: Stream of Consciousness
Breast Update: Stream of Consciousness
Did you miss my breasts? I know I did and they’re attached to my chest
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Jun 2, 2023
Capturing “Glimmers” in a Triggering World
Capturing “Glimmers” in a Triggering World
What’s glimmering you?
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Jun 1, 2023
Van Candy and Other Naughty Nods
Van Candy and Other Naughty Nods
In my first vehicle “Hey Kid, do you want some candy?” was just the beginning
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Apr 27, 2023
Squeeze, Pinch, Pick, Pill: “BJ’s” The Anxious Enthusiast’s Tells
Squeeze, Pinch, Pick, Pill: “BJ’s” The Anxious Enthusiast’s Tells
Insider information about the woman behind the Mistress
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Apr 11, 2023
10 Ways to Celebrate Spring Like You’re Thirty, Flirty, and Thriving
10 Ways to Celebrate Spring Like You’re Thirty, Flirty, and Thriving
I could make a ham, but why limit myself to a day full of dinner when I can make Easter the best kind of “she-bang”
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Apr 8, 2023
Smoker Reincarnate
Smoker Reincarnate
This Beej is intimately acquainted with her past lives
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Apr 7, 2023
My Favorite Comedian is My Improv & Life Partner
My Favorite Comedian is My Improv & Life Partner
He’s the funniest guy I know
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Apr 2, 2023
The Story About the Boy and the Fish
The Story About the Boy and the Fish
Autism and Beautiful minds
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Apr 2, 2023
No One Haunts a Witch
No One Haunts a Witch
Not even her former self
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 31, 2023
Side-Hustling My Way to a Writing Career
Side-Hustling My Way to a Writing Career
Getting shit done: BJ’s side hustle!
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 28, 2023
On a Scale of One to “Feet”, Where Would You Rank This Question?
On a Scale of One to “Feet”, Where Would You Rank This Question?
Dipping our toes into fetishes
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 27, 2023
If Only I Would Have Been Born Blonde, I Wouldn’t Have Needed This College Degree
If Only I Would Have Been Born Blonde, I Wouldn’t Have Needed This College Degree
Wish upon a star. Or go to college.
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 27, 2023
Dance More, Worry Less, Change Your Damn Mind
Dance More, Worry Less, Change Your Damn Mind
My younger self didn’t need a pep talk. She needed everyone to shut up, shut up, and SIT DOWN.
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 25, 2023
Drop Dead Gorgeous: The Anorexic’s Exorcism
Drop Dead Gorgeous: The Anorexic’s Exorcism
I almost died. No shenanigans today, folks.
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 24, 2023
All I Ever Wanted to Be Was Pregnant
All I Ever Wanted to Be Was Pregnant
Life’s curveballs
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 20, 2023
I Keeps the Sheeps: Dallas City Limits
I Keeps the Sheeps: Dallas City Limits
If I could get away with keeping real sheep
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 17, 2023
I Don’t Always Celebrate St. Patty’s Day But When I Do It’s Awesome
I Don’t Always Celebrate St. Patty’s Day But When I Do It’s Awesome
What can I say? I’m a celebrateur. I’ll celebrate St. Patty’s Day. I might even celebrate St. Paddy’s Day.
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 16, 2023
“The Irish Wolfhound” is My Werewolf Lover’s Pet Name
“The Irish Wolfhound” is My Werewolf Lover’s Pet Name
Dragon-born sexes werewolf big doggie style
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 15, 2023
When Life Gives You Lemons, Call Karma a Bitch
When Life Gives You Lemons, Call Karma a Bitch
Put the lemon in the coconut, y’all
Brett Jenae Tomlin
Mar 10, 2023
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