Do Not Strictly Adhere to One Group

It will cause hindrances in mingling with others

Utpal Kumar
Blue Insights
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Ram grew up in a distant nation with a currency of its own. He would work hard and earn cash in the local currency. Gradually Ram became rich and it was time for him to get married. He went to another country in search of his wife but since he only carried cash in his local currency, he was unable to buy anything in that country. The girls in that country wanted someone who would take them on a voyage to a variety of different places and experience different lifestyles. But alas, Ram only had cash in his local currency and hence couldn’t satisfy their needs. He returned back to his land empty-handed.

The analogy to real-life

The distant nation to which Ram belongs refers to the place with its own customs and traditions. For Ram, it was a conservative society with quite some strict laws.

“The local currency in cash that Ram earned is analogous to the bonds that he creates with other members of the society based on sharing similar fears.”

As Ram grew up he earned more and more money in local currency i.e. he formed a lot of relationships with his own people based on sharing similar fears and apprehensions. He had a whole set of school friends who were boys and considered it a sin to get involved with girls. He had another set of people who were the elders in his society who considered playing games a waste of time.

“All these bonds that Ram created were like his earnings in local currency.”

Later Ram went to a very liberal place where both boys and girls were open-minded and formed good friendships. They also considered sports to be an integral part of their lives. But they too formed bonds with other members of their society based on sharing other restrictive ideas. They considered taking care of old people as not their prerogative and didn’t show any appreciation for spiritualism. Thus they too earned cash in their own currency by forming bonds based on these ideologies.

Go for cryptocurrency

Earning cash in local currency is quite restrictive and one cannot mingle with others from different countries easily.

“It is better one forms bonds that are based on love and not fear”

Bonds that are created based on love are like your earnings in cryptocurrency. It is valid universally. In case it is not valid in some countries then I must say that you do not want to be associated with those countries.

How to convert local currency to cryptocurrency

One has to go through the arduous process of catharsis and refinement of the inner child in order to let go of his bonds with people based on shared fear. Yes, it is difficult. We are social animals and forming bonds is in our DNA. But let me say that all bonds created based on sharing similar fears are restrictive in nature. It may provide you with a sense of unity but actually, it will eat you up from inside.

A person on the self-improvement task has to convert all his local currency into cryptocurrency and only then can he mingle with people from all sorts of societies and lead a life full of diverse experiences.

Ram too was devastated by not finding a bride for himself and hence took on the task of converting his local currency to cryptocurrency. He performed catharsis on all the incidents which instilled fear in him towards association with the opposite sex. Once the emotional charge was subverted, he got hold of the false belief and transformed the same. He performed a similar process on the hatred towards playing games and was able to transform the false belief. He now believed that playing games builds character.

After carrying on with the above self-improvement task, Ram had to let go of his variety of bonds with his own people. But he was able to create bonds with people from other countries and there were plenty of them. Thus he transformed his local currency into cryptocurrency.

Later Ram again went on a quest to find a bride for himself. This time the country he went to had many girls vying for him. He could buy stuff in their country and also gave them hope of travelling the world together and enjoying the different cultures. This time Ram returned to his country with a beautiful bride and later travelled the world and had the best life.

This change in the destiny of Ram would not have been possible if he had stuck with his earlier bonds with his own people. He needed to let all the bonds go that were based on fear. He transformed all his earnings in local currency into cryptocurrency and travelled the world and experienced the goodness of each culture.

Conclusion

The formation of bonds based on sharing a similar form of fear is analogous to earning cash in local currency. It is not valid in other countries. You must let go of all sorts of bonds with local people who have fear as the basis of the bond and transform your local currency into cryptocurrency. You can then travel the world and purchase anything anywhere. In countries where they do not accept cryptocurrency i.e. formation of bonds based on love as the basis, I do not think you need to worry a lot over there. It is better you do not visit those places. Good luck transforming all your cash in local currency into cryptocurrency and mingling with the goodness that prevails in this whole world.

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Utpal Kumar
Blue Insights

Interested in the psychology behind human functioning. I write on a variety of topics with most of them dealing with personal development | MS in CS from UCSD