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Stop Settling
Stop Settling
If you find yourself accepting “good enough,” you’re not just shortchanging others — you’re selling yourself short.
The Good Men Project
Nov 8
Apologize All You Want, You’re Still a Dirt-Bag.*
Apologize All You Want, You’re Still a Dirt-Bag.*
People who don’t regularly use slurs in their private life don’t accidentally use them in public.
The Good Men Project
Nov 7
How to Grieve a Situationship
How to Grieve a Situationship
We are familiar with advice pieces on grieving a relationship breakup, but what do you do to grieve a situationship?
Morenike
Nov 7
Boost Your Writing ‘Grit’ with Angela Duckworth’s Insights
Boost Your Writing ‘Grit’ with Angela Duckworth’s Insights
A study that can impact every area of our lives
George Blue Kelly
Nov 7
In Every Word, a Light
In Every Word, a Light
Writing Through Darkness to Find Hope
Lost in My Soul
Nov 6
Chasing Financial Success: Understanding Man’s Dilemma in Oaxaca
Chasing Financial Success: Understanding Man’s Dilemma in Oaxaca
And the intention behind their ultimate choice.
The Good Men Project
Nov 6
Awaken These 4 Superpowers Relieve Stress Instantly
Awaken These 4 Superpowers Relieve Stress Instantly
Stress can leave us feeling disconnected, drained, and lost in our lives.
The Good Men Project
Nov 6
Is Your Career Sinking Your Happiness?
Is Your Career Sinking Your Happiness?
How to recognize if it’s time to move on.
Natalya Permyakova
Nov 5
Defying Our Own Best Interests: Can We Love the Consequences?
Defying Our Own Best Interests: Can We Love the Consequences?
Life is a restoration project of the highest order
The Good Men Project
Nov 5
Quit treating Compromise Like a Dirty Word!
Quit treating Compromise Like a Dirty Word!
Being in ANY relationship requires compromise, killing off the “me me me” mindset so you can find happiness and contentment!
Stephen Bickle Coaching
Nov 4
Losing Myself to Find Myself: The Power of Stillness
Losing Myself to Find Myself: The Power of Stillness
What is that state of life we’re always bouncing around and striving for?
The Good Men Project
Nov 4
The SMART Way to Unlock Your Ambitions
The SMART Way to Unlock Your Ambitions
SMART goals are damn effective if used correctly.
The Good Men Project
Nov 4
7 Tips to Master Your Goals
7 Tips to Master Your Goals
Life is busy and hectic and the ideal times don’t come along bang on your timeline. But I would encourage you to make a note somewhere to…
The Good Men Project
Nov 4
The Time that None of Us Have
The Time that None of Us Have
The Social Veil of Peace and Prosperity
Zackary Henson
Nov 3
How Setting Boundaries Transformed My Life
How Setting Boundaries Transformed My Life
The surprising freedom in setting limits.
Juliana Alcantara
Nov 3
Let Care, Reliable Facts, and Compassion Be Our Guide, Not Just Fear and Anger
Let Care, Reliable Facts, and Compassion Be Our Guide, Not Just Fear and Anger
History can help us understand that an opposing viewpoint can be a lesson to be understood, not an evil to be destroyed
The Good Men Project
Nov 3
Are You Experiencing ‘Spiritual Bankruptcy?’
Are You Experiencing ‘Spiritual Bankruptcy?’
The Inner Economy: Investing in Your Spiritual and financial Future
The Good Men Project
Nov 3
YES or NO: The Life Lesson of the 12-Steps
YES or NO: The Life Lesson of the 12-Steps
Trust the process. Trust some higher power. Trust ourselves.
The Good Men Project
Nov 2
My Experience With Trolls and How I Fought Back
My Experience With Trolls and How I Fought Back
I played with my online Trolls for 72 hours, and this is what I learned.
The Good Men Project
Nov 2
Making Friends With Death: What MY SKIN Taught Me About Mortality
Making Friends With Death: What MY SKIN Taught Me About Mortality
A Song About Facing the Ultimate Fear
The Good Men Project
Nov 1
Slow Down And Listen
Slow Down And Listen
As the world has grown dependent upon instant information, rapid responses, and even quicker connections, the habit of slowing down with…
Dennis • M.Sc.
Nov 1
Wondering If You’re in a Midlife Crisis? Let’s Find Out
Wondering If You’re in a Midlife Crisis? Let’s Find Out
Here’s what to look for — and how to turn it around
Natalya Permyakova
Nov 1
Creative Visualization and “Manifestation” — Fact or Fiction?
Creative Visualization and “Manifestation” — Fact or Fiction?
A famous doctor from the 1960s ended the debate once and for all with his momentous discovery
Matt Karamazov
Nov 1
Men’s Unspoken Needs
Men’s Unspoken Needs
“Who taught you how to recognize your needs?”
The Good Men Project
Nov 1
Clean and Sober, Come Hell or High Water
Clean and Sober, Come Hell or High Water
We must understand that only through daily application and repetition do we improve.
The Good Men Project
Oct 31
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