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The Rattlesnakes That Stalk Me
The Rattlesnakes That Stalk Me
On this day, probable became real.
The Good Men Project
Sep 8
Look the Same Direction
Look the Same Direction
Now, the attacker and I look the same direction. I see what they see. They see what I see. There is no conflict. There is no fight.
The Good Men Project
Sep 7
If You Can Handle Frustration (And the Other Triggers of Anger), the World Is Your Oyster
If You Can Handle Frustration (And the Other Triggers of Anger), the World Is Your Oyster
Controlling anger involves recognizing that it is a secondary emotion usually triggered by frustration, physical pain, a threat, insult…
The Good Men Project
Sep 7
Left-Handed Challenges
Left-Handed Challenges
What’s it like to suddenly–if temporarily–adapt to being left handed?
The Good Men Project
Sep 6
‘Inside Out 2’ Finds Joy in the Moment
‘Inside Out 2’ Finds Joy in the Moment
Anxiety says, “I’m only trying to protect her from the future!” Perhaps. But the past is in the past. And the future hasn’t happened yet…
The Good Men Project
Sep 6
I, Witness: A Moment on a Bridge
I, Witness: A Moment on a Bridge
Such an occurrence is so unusual that most might fail to recognize what is happening.
The Good Men Project
Sep 6
Do You Have a ‘Deeper Yes?’
Do You Have a ‘Deeper Yes?’
What would you stop doing? Each of our answers will vary. It could be a destructive habit, a bad behavior, or the simple wasting of time.
The Good Men Project
Sep 5
Need a Map for Your Brain?
Need a Map for Your Brain?
Not everything about Neuro-Linguistic Programming is phony.
Keith R Wilson
Sep 5
I’m Weird.
I’m Weird.
And I hope you are too.
Leif Meneke
Sep 5
A Reminder: Touch Grass
A Reminder: Touch Grass
The grass grows whether the sun shines or it rains.
The Good Men Project
Sep 5
From the Sidelines to Self-Reflection: How Quitting Football Changed My Life
From the Sidelines to Self-Reflection: How Quitting Football Changed My Life
I had never quit anything before.
The Good Men Project
Sep 4
10 Powerful Strategies for Building Confidence in Yourself
10 Powerful Strategies for Building Confidence in Yourself
It takes self-confidence to live a happy and satisfying life. Self-assured people take on obstacles head-on while maintaining their…
The Good Men Project
Sep 4
Destination: Schnook
Destination: Schnook
I think I’ve arrived.
The Good Men Project
Sep 3
In the Arena with ‘Janet Planet’
In the Arena with ‘Janet Planet’
By Jon Ochiai
The Good Men Project
Sep 3
The Power of Small Choices: How Small Decisions Create Big Wins
The Power of Small Choices: How Small Decisions Create Big Wins
Small decisions can also add up to something detrimental.
Drew Morrison
Sep 3
Divorce Got You Down? The One Decision That Changed Everything for Me
Divorce Got You Down? The One Decision That Changed Everything for Me
Taking back control to rebuild your life.
Julie Gaeta
Sep 3
Changing Lives: How Do We Change Our State?
Changing Lives: How Do We Change Our State?
Change your emotional state if you feel bored, lonely, lost, unsuccessful, betrayed, or abandoned, and life will become a miracle again.
Elena V. Amber
Sep 3
Creating Order in Your Mind
Creating Order in Your Mind
It is essential to create space for mindfulness and meditation.
The Good Men Project
Sep 3
Anxiety vs. Bad Habits: How to Identify What’s Really Affecting You
Anxiety vs. Bad Habits: How to Identify What’s Really Affecting You
Identifying the Red Flags and How to Address Them
Shweta L
Sep 2
The Dollar Dilemma: Why Chasing Money Will Never Make You Super(man) Happy
The Dollar Dilemma: Why Chasing Money Will Never Make You Super(man) Happy
The greatest riches are not found in bank vaults, but in the hearts and minds we touch.
The Good Men Project
Sep 2
What This 9,000,000-Copy Bestselling Novel Taught Me About the Greatness of Humanity
What This 9,000,000-Copy Bestselling Novel Taught Me About the Greatness of Humanity
Whether it’s greatness or awfulness, you’ll find whatever you’re looking for.
Matt Karamazov
Sep 1
Unwinnable: When You Are Playing a Rigged Game
Unwinnable: When You Are Playing a Rigged Game
Instead of questioning “why do I keep losing?”, candidates may want to consider “did I have a fair chance in the first place?”
The Good Men Project
Sep 1
Stopping The Negative Stigma: Understanding Addiction
Stopping The Negative Stigma: Understanding Addiction
Help to shift the perspective on addiction.
Dawn D
Sep 1
Learning Through Unlearning
Learning Through Unlearning
Unlearning is essentially proper discernment, being able to admit when we are wrong, and update our beliefs accordingly.
The Good Men Project
Sep 1
You Are Forgiven
You Are Forgiven
You are forgiven for freezing in agony instead of taking the small step forward that you are indeed capable of.
The Good Men Project
Aug 31
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